Aw, that's a shame about the shirt. It may not be a lost cause, though. Try washing it again (or even just giving it a soak in the sink), and hanging it to dry. It may relax back to its original state.

It was a lovely weekend, wasn't it? And though I hated to leave early, it was good to get caught up on my sleep last night. (-:

P.S. I loved the cabernet, precisely *because* it didn't have some of the qualities "good" cabernet has.